white men who think theyre the shit
i am so sick and tired of white men thinking they have a right to my fucking time. here is the difference in approach, 9 times out of 10:
black guys approach me and try to strike up a conversation that shows something about themselves; if we get to chatting then they ask if i talk to black guys, and when i say yes then they ask if they can take me out. if i seem disinterested at any point, they almost always back off without me having to actually ask them to leave me be.
latinos approach me by being funny and cracking jokes about being latin@ in the shitty area where i now live. if i dont seem into it then they might suck their teeth at me or something but they also back off.
but white guys? they think they can come to me with NO GAME WHATSOEVER, just by virtue of being a white dude they can just stroll up to me like “ew you’re drinking whiskey?” or something stupid like that. they try to flip it like i should impress them. if i don’t seem into it then they KEEP GOING. if i ignore them or walk away then they sometimes follow. it is WHITE MEN who call me a bitch or a cunt or a slut when i am not interested in them. i have been followed in cars by packs of white men. i have had white men not give up and stalk me around bars and clubs or try to take me down a notch. and it’s because they think that they have a fucking right to my body. and maybe they dont get it, but it is fucking terrifying to me because historically, as a mexican woman, white men would have had access to my body. so i can’t just say “oh he is persistent” or whatever. i have to be aware of this larger context that they are exploiting without a second thought.




